Coward is a great word to describe him. He's outgoing, but when push comes to shove, he's passive. He doesn't choose sides, even when I'm involved, he tends to tell everyone just what they want to hear. I didn't really notice that until recently, but... I can't be with someone like that. I'm looking for the sort of guy who will put something on the line for me, or defend me, or do whatever the situation may call for. I never felt like I was top priority with Andy.
But I don't think I have to tell you that; you don't strike me as the type of woman to get stupid over a guy. XD
Bingo! Really, I wasn't even sad about this... XD I sounded unusually chipper during our phone conversation. XD I just don't panic over guys the way some girls do. I recognize that relationships at this stage in my life are meant to come and go, and break-ups are going to happen. If I find someone whose worth my time, I don't think I need to worry about losing him. XD
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Date: 3/20/09 11:48 am (UTC)But I don't think I have to tell you that; you don't strike me as the type of woman to get stupid over a guy. XD
Bingo! Really, I wasn't even sad about this... XD I sounded unusually chipper during our phone conversation. XD I just don't panic over guys the way some girls do. I recognize that relationships at this stage in my life are meant to come and go, and break-ups are going to happen. If I find someone whose worth my time, I don't think I need to worry about losing him. XD